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Shiva Shakti — Ceremony

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✦   Shiva   ✦   Shakti   ✦

Shiva & Shakti A Sacred Ceremony for the 21st Century

What if one evening could crack your heart wide open — and fill it with more love than you've felt in years?
✦ Southern California ✦ Growing to New Cities ✦ No Partner Needed ✦ All Are Welcome
Reserve Your Sacred Seat Tickets not available at the door · Space is limited by design
Tea light candles in a row with meditating silhouettes
The Sacred Container

What Is a Puja Ceremony?

The word Puja comes from ancient Sanskrit, and it means "act of reverence" or "offering." In Hindu and ancient traditions, a Puja is a sacred ceremony — a ritual space held with intention, devotion, and care — where participants come together to honor something divine.
In our Shiva Shakti Ceremony, what we are honoring is the divine energy within each of us.

Shiva

The Divine Masculine

Presence. Stillness. Pure consciousness. The unwavering witness beneath all experience.

Shakti

The Divine Feminine

Flow. Creativity. Life force. The primal energy that animates and enlivens all of existence.

Every human being carries both of these energies, regardless of gender. This Ceremony is an invitation to feel them both — awakened, balanced, alive within you. This is not a lecture or a workshop. It's a living ceremony — a guided, experiential journey through breathwork, movement, meditation, authentic relating, and mindful touch. It unfolds in a sacred container held by your facilitator, where you are free to go as deep as you choose. Think of it as a permission slip to feel more alive.
Sacred ceremony — hands held in candlelight
The Journey

What to Expect

You don't need a partner. You don't need experience. You don't need to know anything about tantra. You just need to show up curious and open. This ceremony is specifically designed so that you can come solo and leave feeling deeply connected to a whole community of heart-centered people. Your Evening Will Flow Through
  • A welcoming arrival and settling circle — meet your fellow travelers before the journey begins
  • Guided breathwork to drop out of your head and fully into your body
  • Authentic relating games and improv-style partner exercises — playful, fun, and surprisingly connecting
  • Movement and somatic practices to awaken your senses and open your energy
  • Gentle, consensual, clothed touch exercises — always optional, always boundaried
  • A closing meditation to integrate the experience and seal the evening in love
🔒   Fully clothed the entire evening   ✦   Everything consent-based and optional   ✦   You are always in control
Sacred geometry mandala painting — gold on dark cosmic background
Sacred Voices

What people carry home

I came alone, knowing absolutely no one. By the end of the night I felt like I'd known these people my whole life. I cried, I laughed, I felt my heart crack open in the best way. I left glowing. I'm still glowing three weeks later.

Marisol

I've been to yoga retreats, sound baths, cacao ceremonies — but nothing has ever moved me the way this Ceremony did. It wasn't mystical or weird. It was just… real. Real people, real connection, real presence. I felt electricity in my whole body for the first time in years.

Jordan

I came in carrying so much grief and heaviness. Somewhere in the breathwork, something just… released. Like a fist around my heart finally let go. I left feeling free. Genuinely free. Shiva J holds space unlike anyone I've ever experienced.

Priya

Okay I'll be honest — I showed up mostly because my friend dragged me. I was skeptical. But within the first 30 minutes, I was laughing harder than I had in months. And by the end I felt this deep warmth in my chest that I can only describe as love. Totally unexpected. Totally worth it.

Daniel

My partner and I came together thinking we knew each other. This Ceremony showed us parts of ourselves — and each other — we hadn't touched in years. We drove home in beautiful silence, holding hands. It reignited something. Highly recommend for couples AND singles.

Amara & Deshawn

I'm a therapist. I know what good therapeutic space looks like. And Shiva J creates it masterfully — warm, boundaried, playful, and deeply safe. I felt blissful from the very first exercise and that feeling carried me all the way home. This is healing in its purest, most joyful form.

Rachel, LCSW
Floating candles on water at dusk — sacred ceremony
The Bliss Guarantee

Attend. Experience.
If you don't leave in bliss — you don't pay.

I am so confident that this experience will move, open, and transform you, that I'm putting my money where my heart is.

If you attend the full evening and don't feel the shift — if you don't leave feeling more open, more connected, more alive than when you walked in — simply find me before you leave. Full refund. No questions. No awkwardness. Just gratitude for showing up.

That's how much I believe in this work.

— Shiva J, Facilitator
The Ceremony

Details & Sacred Seat

Doors Open

Arrival & Settling

Enter the space, connect gently with the community before the ceremony begins.

Ceremony Begins

The Ceremony Opens

No late entry after the ceremony begins — the opening sets the sacred container for all.

Ceremony Closes

Integration & Closing

We seal the evening together in love before parting.

📍 Held at sacred venues across Southern California and beyond — exact address provided with ticket purchase. Dates and locations vary; check Eventbrite for upcoming ceremonies. Investment
Early Bird$49Limited quantity
Regular$59Standard entry
Last Chance$69Final tickets
Tickets not available at the door — reserve your sacred seat in advance.
Your Guide

About Shiva J

Shiva J

Advanced Certified Tantra Educator · Kundalini Yoga Instructor · Somatic Facilitator · Dating & Relationship Coach · Licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist · Master NLP Practitioner

Since 2003, Shiva J has been dedicated to transformational work — helping individuals and couples elevate their lives and relationships through profound healing and growth. A skilled community builder and compassionate healer, he integrates mind, body, and spirit with his gift of insight to guide clients toward clarity, empowerment, and lasting transformation.

His work focuses on fostering deeper connection, intimacy, and self-awareness. The Shiva Shakti Ceremony is the living heart of that work — a ritual that brings ancient wisdom into direct, embodied experience for modern people.

Shiva J is also a lead facilitator for Tantra Speed Date® San Diego and is available for private sessions, workshops, and retreats.

Your heart is ready.
Your community is waiting.

Sacred ceremonies across Southern California & beyond — new events added all the time Reserve Your Sacred Seat Fully clothed · Consent-based · All are welcome