Presence. Stillness. Pure consciousness. The unwavering witness beneath all experience.
Flow. Creativity. Life force. The primal energy that animates and enlivens all of existence.
I came alone, knowing absolutely no one. By the end of the night I felt like I'd known these people my whole life. I cried, I laughed, I felt my heart crack open in the best way. I left glowing. I'm still glowing three weeks later.
I've been to yoga retreats, sound baths, cacao ceremonies — but nothing has ever moved me the way this Ceremony did. It wasn't mystical or weird. It was just… real. Real people, real connection, real presence. I felt electricity in my whole body for the first time in years.
I came in carrying so much grief and heaviness. Somewhere in the breathwork, something just… released. Like a fist around my heart finally let go. I left feeling free. Genuinely free. Shiva J holds space unlike anyone I've ever experienced.
Okay I'll be honest — I showed up mostly because my friend dragged me. I was skeptical. But within the first 30 minutes, I was laughing harder than I had in months. And by the end I felt this deep warmth in my chest that I can only describe as love. Totally unexpected. Totally worth it.
My partner and I came together thinking we knew each other. This Ceremony showed us parts of ourselves — and each other — we hadn't touched in years. We drove home in beautiful silence, holding hands. It reignited something. Highly recommend for couples AND singles.
I'm a therapist. I know what good therapeutic space looks like. And Shiva J creates it masterfully — warm, boundaried, playful, and deeply safe. I felt blissful from the very first exercise and that feeling carried me all the way home. This is healing in its purest, most joyful form.
I am so confident that this experience will move, open, and transform you, that I'm putting my money where my heart is.
If you attend the full evening and don't feel the shift — if you don't leave feeling more open, more connected, more alive than when you walked in — simply find me before you leave. Full refund. No questions. No awkwardness. Just gratitude for showing up.
That's how much I believe in this work.
— Shiva J, FacilitatorEnter the space, connect gently with the community before the ceremony begins.
No late entry after the ceremony begins — the opening sets the sacred container for all.
We seal the evening together in love before parting.
Since 2003, Shiva J has been dedicated to transformational work — helping individuals and couples elevate their lives and relationships through profound healing and growth. A skilled community builder and compassionate healer, he integrates mind, body, and spirit with his gift of insight to guide clients toward clarity, empowerment, and lasting transformation.
His work focuses on fostering deeper connection, intimacy, and self-awareness. The Shiva Shakti Ceremony is the living heart of that work — a ritual that brings ancient wisdom into direct, embodied experience for modern people.
Shiva J is also a lead facilitator for Tantra Speed Date® San Diego and is available for private sessions, workshops, and retreats.