Services

The Ultimate Tantric Immersion Experience

This is the most profound offering I provide — and the most rare. Over three or five fully customized days, we go deep. Together we weave Tantric teaching, somatic bodywork, breathwork, ritual, meditation, and one-on-one coaching into a continuous arc of transformation designed entirely around you and what your body, heart, and spirit are ready to receive.

This isn’t a retreat you attend. It’s an experience built for you alone — your history, your edges, your longing, your next level. People emerge from these immersions fundamentally changed. Not because something was done to them, but because they finally had the time, the space, and the container to meet themselves fully.

Available for individuals or couples. Pricing discussed during consultation. Inquire to begin.

Tantra Counseling & Coaching for Couples

Most couples don’t have a connection problem. They have a depth problem — years of life, stress, and unspoken longing slowly building distance between two people who genuinely love each other. These sessions are for couples who are done settling for surface and ready to find their way back to each other — and deeper than they’ve ever been.

Through breathwork, guided touch, conscious communication practices, and somatic exploration, we work together to rekindle polarity, rebuild trust, and open channels of intimacy that may have gone quiet. Each session is tailored to where you actually are — not where you think you should be.

Available as single sessions or ongoing packages.

Sexuality & Tantra Education

Whether you’re brand new to Tantra or have been on the path for years, there is always more to understand — and more to embody. These sessions are part teaching, part exploration, part transmission. We go at your pace, following your curiosity, into the ancient and living wisdom of Tantric sexuality as a path of awakening.

Topics can include the energetic anatomy of pleasure, the polarity of masculine and feminine, sacred sexuality practices, the relationship between desire and spirituality, and whatever else you’re genuinely curious about. No question is too strange. No starting point is wrong.

Available for individuals, couples, and practitioners deepening their own understanding.

Somatic Therapy

The body remembers everything the mind tries to forget. Somatic Therapy works directly with the wisdom of the nervous system — using gentle touch, movement, breathwork, and guided awareness to help you release what you’ve been holding, restore what’s been disconnected, and come home to yourself in the most literal sense.

This isn’t massage and it isn’t therapy in the clinical sense — it’s something in between and beyond both. It’s the work of helping your body feel safe enough to let go.

Available as standalone sessions or woven into a longer coaching or immersion container.

Somatic Breathwork

Breath is the most direct portal into the body’s intelligence — and one of the most underestimated. These lineage-based, trauma-informed breathwork sessions — offered under the name Embodied Breath — use conscious connected breathing to move energy, release stored emotion, expand awareness, and access states of clarity and aliveness that most people never knew were available to them.

Sessions are held in a carefully prepared container with full integration support. No experience necessary. Just a willingness to breathe and feel.

Available as individual sessions or in series.

Tantric Massage (for women)

Offered in a safe, sacred space, Tantric Massage is not about relaxation — it’s about awakening. Drawing on over 20 years of study with masters across multiple lineages, these sessions weave breathwork, energetic cultivation, and conscious touch to invite the body into deeper aliveness, release, and healing.

This is for women who are ready to be truly seen, held, and nourished — and to experience their own body as a source of wisdom rather than something to manage or perform.

Each session begins with a thorough consultation. Boundaries and intentions are established with care.

Thai Massage

One of the world’s oldest healing arts — brought to life through two decades of dedicated practice. Thai Massage combines acupressure, assisted stretching, and rhythmic movement to release deep tension, restore flexibility, and leave the whole system feeling open, spacious, and renewed. Fully clothed, floor-based, no oils.

Available on mat or table. Suitable for all body types and experience levels.

Sports Massage

Designed for athletes, movers, and anyone who asks a lot of their body. Using deep tissue work, trigger point therapy, stretching, and targeted pressure, these sessions help you recover faster, perform better, and stay ahead of injury. Hot stones and aromatherapy available on request.

Available on mat or table.

Breakthrough Sessions

Sometimes you don’t need a long program. You need one powerful conversation that cuts through the noise and gets to the truth of what’s actually going on — and what’s actually possible.

Breakthrough Sessions are single, focused coaching sessions designed to create a genuine shift. We identify the pattern, belief, story, or block that’s keeping you stuck — and we move it. Drawing on somatic awareness, NVC, shadow work, Jungian frameworks, and two decades of working with people in transformation, these sessions go deep fast.

Come with a specific challenge, a decision you can’t make, a relationship that’s stuck, a dream you can’t seem to start, or simply a feeling that something needs to change. Leave with clarity, direction, and momentum.

Available as a standalone session or as an entry point into ongoing coaching.

Tantra & Somatic Coaching

This is the ongoing work — for people who are ready to go all the way in. Not a single session but a sustained relationship of growth, accountability, and transformation over time.

Tantra & Somatic Coaching weaves together everything I know and everything I am — somatic bodywork, breathwork, shadow work, Jungian archetypes, Tantric philosophy, nervous system regulation, and relational intelligence — into a personalized path built entirely around you.

This is for the person who has done some work and knows there’s more. Who is ready to stop circling the edges and step into the center of their own life. Whatever body you live in, wherever you’re starting from, whatever you’re moving toward — this work meets you there.

Available as monthly packages or intensive containers. Inquire to explore what’s right for you.

Kundalini Activation

At the base of your spine lives an energy that most people never access. Kundalini Activation sessions work to awaken and circulate this primal life force — through breathwork, visualization, guided movement, and energetic transmission — creating experiences of deep purification, expanded awareness, and profound connection to something larger than the everyday self.

This is not Kundalini Yoga. This is direct energetic work. Come with an open body and an open mind.

Available as standalone sessions or in series for deeper integration.

Third Eye Activation

Beyond the five senses lives another kind of knowing — intuitive, direct, and whole. Third Eye Activation sessions use guided meditation, energy work, and visualization to open and strengthen this inner perception, helping you access clarity, wisdom, and insight that the analytical mind simply cannot reach.

If you’ve ever felt that you were meant to see more than you’re currently seeing — this is the work.

Available as standalone sessions or combined with other energetic offerings.

Reiki & Energy Healing

Everything is energy — and sometimes energy gets stuck. Reiki and Energy Healing sessions work directly with your energetic field to clear blockages, restore flow, and return the whole system to a state of balance and vitality. Sessions are gentle, deeply relaxing, and often profoundly clarifying.

Whether you’re carrying grief, stress, physical tension, emotional heaviness, or simply a sense of being off — these sessions help you remember what it feels like to be in harmony with yourself.

Available as standalone sessions or woven into broader healing containers.

Sex Magick

Sexual energy is the most powerful creative force available to a human being. Most people spend their lives either suppressing it or discharging it — never learning to cultivate and direct it with intention.

Sex Magick sessions teach you to do exactly that. Through guided ritual, focused intention, breathwork, and somatic practice, you learn to harness your erotic energy as a genuine tool for manifestation, healing, and spiritual awakening. This is ancient technology — brought into a contemporary, embodied, grounded container.

For individuals ready to work at the intersection of sexuality and spiritual practice. Sessions begin with thorough consultation.

Conscious Bachelor Experience

Most bachelor parties celebrate the end of freedom. This one celebrates the beginning of something far greater.

A fully facilitated men’s circle designed to prepare the groom — and his brotherhood — to step into marriage with clarity, intention, and genuine readiness. Through opening ritual, guided reflection, wisdom sharing, and structured conversation, the men in the room show up for each other in a way that most men never get to experience.

No substances. No regrets. Just depth, brotherhood, and the kind of preparation that actually matters for the life ahead.

Available in half-day or full-day formats. Every experience is designed around your group after an initial conversation. Inquire at SDDJontheGo.com

Conscious Bride Experience

A women’s circle that honors the woman crossing the threshold — not just the bride preparing for a wedding.

Facilitated in partnership with a trusted female co-facilitator, this experience gathers the women who love her most to share wisdom, celebrate her becoming, and hold her in the full beauty of this transition. Tears, laughter, truth, and deep sisterhood — the kind of send-off that actually nourishes the soul.

Available in half-day or full-day formats. Designed collaboratively starting with your vision. Inquire at SDDJontheGo.com

Family Pre-Ceremony

Two families becoming one is one of the most significant — and most underserved — moments in any wedding journey. This sacred gathering brings both families together before the wedding day to bless the union, share wisdom, and begin the merging of two lineages with intention, love, and grace.

Interfaith and culturally inclusive. Fully customized to your family’s dynamic, values, and story.

Inquire at SDDJontheGo.com

Sacred Gatherings & Community Circles

Beyond the one-on-one and the ceremony, there is the circle — and the circle is where much of the deepest work happens.

Shiva J facilitates a range of sacred community gatherings throughout Southern California — conscious connection events, men’s circles, mixed-gender somatic experiences, and heart-centered community nights. These are spaces where people who feel things deeply finally find each other.

To find upcoming gatherings visit the Events & Workshops page, or inquire about hosting a private circle for your community.

Dream Interpretation

Your dreams are not random. They are your subconscious mind speaking in the only language it knows — symbol, metaphor, and image. Dream Interpretation sessions help you decode the messages your inner world is sending, revealing patterns, guidance, and insight that can meaningfully inform your waking life.

Bring your dreams. Leave with understanding.

Available as a 60-minute standalone session or as an add-on to any coaching package.

Human Design Reading

Human Design is a system that maps your unique energetic blueprint — how you’re designed to make decisions, where your consistent gifts live, and where you’re most vulnerable to taking on energy that isn’t yours.

A personalized Human Design Reading gives you a practical framework for understanding yourself more deeply — and for making choices that are genuinely aligned with who you actually are rather than who you’ve been told to be.

Available as a 60-minute standalone session or as an add-on to any coaching package. Birth date, time, and location required.